Tag: life

Welcome! This weekend is Memorial Day which is a day for us to have a lot of fun and have barbecues. However, Memorial Day is a day to say a little prayer of thanks for those who died fighting for our freedom. Have fun but remember them because they would be partying too if they were with you. This is what they died for. The weather in the northeast is supposed to be beautiful this weekend. We hope it is beautiful wherever you are.

Also, this Saturday is our son David’s 38th birthday. We are so proud of him. He is a supervisor at Dave’s Tree Service. His family is so beautiful. We love all of them so much.

Sending all our love to our brothers and sisters around the world.

Now for this week’s story:

As of this writing it is the middle of May 2025. The Trump administration has been in office 5 months. No bad actors of the sewer have been arrested. The people who voted to get rid of this sewer in Washington are becoming extremely agitated and frustrated.

The more reference points you have, the more likely you will make the right decision. Here are my reference points about these arrests. I hope they help anyone who is frustrated.

First, I do not know for sure that they are going to arrest these people, try them, and put them in prison. Other administrations have promised reform, and we never have gotten it!

However, for the people who follow what is going on in Washington and also understand how America works, they know there absolutely has to be accountability. If there isn’t, the next corrupt administration will be far worse than the Biden Administration.

With that said, this is an experience I had dealing with the District Attorney in Dutchess County, New York.

My 9-year-old daughter and I just happened to be in a location where we witnessed a man hit his wife. He only did it once, otherwise they would have been arresting me. We reported the assault. Upon reporting it the detectives informed us that there had been many people that had called the police to help this woman.

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Welcome! The weather has been beautiful the last few days. I hope it has been beautiful where you are. Our ad campaign is continuing on Facebook and Instagram. Our rescheduled presentation at the Archdiocese of Ulster County is coming up on May 29. Prayers and good thoughts are welcome. We hope to schedule more You’re Amazing classes due to this presentation.

On the personal front, we ask for prayers for our son-in-law who just had 3 stints put in his heart. We are so thankful that he was able to have this procedure done so that he will feel better. His son and daughter, our grandchildren have their spring concerts at school this week.

Now for this week’s story:

This is a blog I have thought about for a long time. To be honest I have been procrastinating, because I will guarantee that I’ll leave something out. After reading this or any other blog, please let me know if you think I left a lesson out. Also let me know your point of view.

The Science of God tells us that if we want to raise our melodies, we must protect the children. Any good seeds we plant will reap great rewards spiritually long into the future. So far into the future we will still be reaping the rewards long after we have passed over to the next dimension.

Therefore, if we are to help the kids where do we start? We start with the basics, the rules.

I was assistant coaching for a Catholic Youth Basketball (CYO)Team. None of the kids had ever played basketball before. This meant that we had to start with the basics, the rules. As we taught what a travel was, what a double dribble was, what a carry was, etc. it was not too long before one of the other coaches looked at me and said, “Man there are a lot of rules.”

He and I had played basketball for so long we took our knowledge for granted. Thinking everyone knew the rules, everyone knew how far you could stretch the rules, and everyone knew how to play within the rules. However, as we instructed the kids, it seemed every time one of them touched the ball, we were telling them they were doing something that was against the rules.

I could see the frustration building in the kids. Reading their body language, they were thinking “How am I ever going to win! I can’t do anything right! There are too many rules! I’m so overwhelmed! I will never catch on! I might as well give up!” Etc.

All of us can identify with the kids’ feelings. Now think about all of our kids throughout the world. They leave school not knowing any of the rules on how to survive. The school systems were literally set up to make them into government and corporate dependents. Making them so dependent that they have little to no options in life. I have spoken and blogged about this in the past along with showing where you can find the videos and documents which prove this is true.

I have told you in the past that we as parents and guardians have to bypass the schools and teach our kids the rules. To say that is fine and dandy, but have you ever seen a written document that tells you the rules of life? No! Nothing that lays out the steps. Not even the basics. This leads me to start thinking if I had to tell a child or anyone else what the rules are, what would I tell them?

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Welcome! Our ad campaign has been running on Facebook and Instagram. We have started to get orders for both You’re Amazing And I’ll Prove It! and A Peaceful Quiet Mind™. This is extremely exciting that we are helping people. If you don’t know what A Peaceful Quiet Mind™ is, it is a really simple scientifically proven method of finally stopping the nagging negative tape recording that is running in your head. You can learn more about A Peaceful Quiet Mind™ in my blog of April 16, 2025.Both are available on our website at https://youreamazingandillproveit.com

Now for this week’s story:

I have been told since I was young, along with watching documentaries where the people are also being told that we are here to suffer. I’m here to tell you that You Are Good. That God wants you to enjoy this life. Yes, you will have challenges. That is just part of the game, but you were put here to enjoy, to learn, and to grow. This is simply the Science of God.

I have told you in the past that I am old. Due to this I have had many experiences. These experiences have given me reference points to use when making decisions. With those experiences, I have had a lot of failures.

Failure is just a learning adventure that more often than not sucks. However, once you fight your way through the failures, success is on the way.

With that said, let’s face it, you really get no information out of the above statement. So, let’s see if I can show you?

Lady Linda and I have never been ones to spend money frivolously. However, we forgot about the basics of money. Actually, that is an understatement to the max degree. We forgot about the first rule of money and without it there is no Money! The first rule is Cash Flow Is Everything!

We had set our lives up, so we had as few bills as possible. House paid off, land paid off etc. but we neglected our cash flow and took on a few small monthly bills. I mean how much could a few small monthly bills hurt? A LOT WITH NO CASH FLOW!

At this point we were not in good shape. Yes, we owned everything, but with just a few missteps this could be a disaster.

Now that we have failed what do we do about it? There is only one thing to do. Pick ourselves up, brush off, and make some decisions. The decisions we made in no particular order. We had a lot of small home projects going with supplies here on our property. Again, Yes, the supplies are paid off, BUT WE HAVE NO CASH FLOW! Under most circumstances I would not condone this, but Home Depot & Lowe’s let you return things within a specified time period. We rounded everything up and returned it.

We cancelled our TV provider. That saved $100 bucks a month.

When Linda and I got together, she had some antique furniture which we as a couple now had to store. Every marriage is a business partnership. So, anything that was a bill for her is now a bill for the couple. Because of this our first decision was to rent a storage unit. Making monthly payments of $150.

I don’t know if I have said this before in this blog, but WE HAVE NO CASH FLOW! We have to stop as much of the out-flowing money as possible. As usual, God helped us with this one. Making a long story short, a friend had been storing wood for a long time. He told us we could have it. Thanks to God and to Sal!

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Hope everyone is doing well. The new ads for You’re Amazing And I’ll Prove It! should be going up on Facebook and Instagram this week. We are also adding a new product to the website which we will tell you more about once it has been added.

Spring is starting so our grandkids will be back to playing sports. We will have some soccer, flag football, and baseball games to attend.

Now for this week’s story:

In the last number of blogs I have spoken about how science has proven what ancient religions have been teaching for centuries. That the Golden Rule applies – treat others as you wish to be treated, do no harm, however you want to say it. Our goal is to raise other spirits around us in order to raise our own.

But as you know, life is not black and white. So how do we apply the above information and know that we’re making the right decision when we are in a situation where we are unsure of the decision.

During my life I have made decisions that virtually everyone has disagreed with. Not only did they disagree with the decision, but they also vocally told me they were not happy. I tell them, it is my decision to make, not yours. I have to live with the consequences, so I do everything in my power to make sure I make the right decision for me, my family, my community, etc.

Everybody knows I’m an inventor, a crazy one at that. The Doctors have already decided. As an inventor I take all the factual information I can put together, assemble it, and try to peer into the future to see what is going to happen. If I make one decision, I see an outcome. If I make a different decision, I see a different outcome and so on. Once I have the best outcome I can find, I then make my decision.

For me personally I tend to make my decisions very slowly. This is mostly because I am gathering as much factual information as I can, and it takes time. But it also means that once I decide, I will stand on that decision regardless of what anyone else thinks. The only way I will consider changing my decision is if I receive factual information that I didn’t have while making my original decision.

After all, if you don’t have all the factual information, it is highly likely you are going to make the wrong decision.

For instance, and this may be oversimplified, but it makes the point. Let’s say my son tells me that his cat is scared to death to be under the house. However, the dog chased the cat under there. Because of this factual information, I’m now crawling under the house trying to find the cat. With the information I have, this is the right decision. Now my son tells me, after I have already crawled under the house, that the cat has already come out. Obviously with this new information, my first decision was wrong. At this point, I changed my decision, and I came out from underneath the house.

So, the point here is to encourage you to gather all the factual information when making whatever decision you are going to make. Once you have that information, make your decision and don’t worry about what anybody else thinks. If they can give you further information that will change your decision, fine. However, if they can’t give you any further factual information, don’t worry about what they think.

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Welcome! Happy St. Patrick’s Day. Next week is also mine and Lady Linda’s 20th wedding anniversary. The weather here in the northeast is finally starting to get a little warmer. It’s great to see people out and about. As always, You’re Amazing And I’ll Prove It!

Now for this week’s story:

Not long-ago Lady Linda and I were walking down the sidewalk when suddenly she tripped on an uneven portion. When she tripped, she fell. I stood there and looked at her. Why did I not help her?

I hear the word Love all the time. I love him/her. I love my children. I love my Sister or Brother, aunt or uncle, mom or dad etc. But what is the Greatest form of Love one person can show to another?

As you probably already know Lady Linda and I had a housecleaning business for more than 20 years. Through those 20 years we had customers for years. Every week or two she and I would go into their homes and clean. Many of these customers worked from home, meaning they were home when Lady Linda and I were in their homes.

During this time of going into their homes every week or two, with them home, Lady Linda and I became like family. So much so that one cleaning day Lady Linda and I brought our 20-year-old son to help us.

The client had never met our son. When we walked in the client, a woman, was sitting in her easy chair with her robe and slippers on, drinking coffee. Her hair was disheveled, and she had no makeup on. Instantly upon seeing a stranger she jumped up, shouting “you brought company”. She ran to her bedroom, put on a nice outfit, fixed her hair, and put on makeup before we could introduce our son. Now that’s family. This gave me a fairly unique vantage point to view how different families function behind closed doors.

The first question I have is, is love politics, religion, skin color (race), or sexual preference? During the time Lady Linda and I cleaned houses our clients ran the gamut in all four categories. Politically we had everyone from devout communists to devout capitalists and everything in between. Religiously, we had Buddhists, Jewish, Christians, and Muslims. We had every skin color and as far as sexual orientation we had all walks of life in that category as well.

Every last family, we became part of, loved one another deeply. They cared about their neighbors, their town and country. There are no exceptions of any kind.

This means love isn’t politics, religion, skin color (race), or sexual preference. Then perhaps it’s taking care of each other. Also, if it is taking care of each other, what does taking care of each other mean?

Because I am 66 years old, I have a lot of reference points to answer the question, is love taking care of each other? I will continue to use Lady Linda and my housecleaning family as my reference in this blog.

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